Should I have a hen's night?
Whether you should have a hen's night really depends on your personality and preferences. Here are some factors to consider in making that decision:
Reasons to Have a Hen’s Night:
Celebrating with Friends: It’s a chance to gather your closest friends for a fun time before the wedding, which can be a great bonding experience.
Relaxation and Fun: Weddings can be stressful to plan. A hen’s night gives you the opportunity to relax, let loose, and enjoy yourself without wedding-day pressures.
Tradition: For some, the hen’s night is a cherished pre-wedding tradition. If it’s something you’ve always imagined, it can add to the excitement leading up to your big day.
Personalization: It doesn’t have to be a wild night out if that’s not your style. You can tailor the event to fit what you enjoy, such as a spa day, quiet dinner, or weekend retreat.
Reasons to Skip It:
Not Your Style: If the idea of having a hen’s night doesn’t appeal to you—whether you dislike parties or would prefer to avoid the spotlight—you don’t need to have one. It’s completely okay to skip it.
Time or Budget Constraints: Planning a wedding is already time-consuming and expensive. If adding a hen’s night feels overwhelming, it’s fine to forgo it or plan something simple instead.
Close Connections: If you feel you’ve already had ample time to celebrate with friends or prefer to spend time one-on-one with important people in your life, a formal hen’s night may not feel necessary.
Alternative Celebrations: You could celebrate in other meaningful ways, like a joint event with your partner (stag and hen combined), or even plan something post-wedding, like a gathering with friends once all the wedding excitement has settled.
Ultimately, the decision should reflect your preferences and comfort. Would you enjoy the experience? Or would it add unnecessary stress? If you prefer more low-key, intimate gatherings or none at all, that’s completely valid.
