Who to invite to my hens night
When deciding who to invite to your hens night, the goal is to create a fun, supportive group of close friends and family members. Here’s a guide to help you decide who should make the guest list:
Core People to Invite
Bridesmaids and Maid of Honor: Your bridesmaids are likely your closest friends or family members, and they’re usually essential to the hens night. The maid of honor often plays a central role in planning, too.
Close Friends: Invite friends who have been a big part of your life and would make the evening special. This might include friends from different phases of your life, like high school, university, or work.
Close Family Members: Some brides invite female family members, like sisters, cousins, and occasionally moms or aunts, especially if the gathering is more low-key. However, for more wild or relaxed celebrations, you may want to keep it to friends only.
Future In-Laws (Optional): If you’re close with your future sister-in-law or even mother-in-law and feel they would enjoy the event, they can be included, especially for a daytime or more refined celebration.
Factors to Consider
Group Dynamic: Aim for a group that gets along well or has some shared connections, which helps keep things comfortable and fun.
Venue and Style: If the hens night involves travel or activities that may not appeal to everyone, consider planning a second, more inclusive event for family members or friends who wouldn’t enjoy a night out.
Size of the Group: Hens nights can be just as fun with a small, intimate group as with a larger one. The most important thing is that it’s a crowd you’ll feel comfortable and happy around.
Alternatives for Different Groups
If you’d like to celebrate with people who may not be a fit for the main hens night (such as older family members or work friends), consider hosting a second gathering like a pre-wedding lunch or afternoon tea.
